Writers: How Not to Bomb
July 17, 2011 by 2 Comments
When you’re nervous before a reading, open mic or a speaking event you’re that way because you don’t want to bomb. You don’t want to be humiliated and asked never to come back. You also don’t want to let your audience down. Maybe you’ve had a less-than-ideal speaking experience and you’re afraid lightning will strike twice. I’d like to share a few tips with you on how not to bomb, or at least how to bomb less! Now, let go of your nervousness and give your best performance to the people who have come to see you!
Know Your Audience
If you’re an author giving a reading, know your audience! Are they familiar with your work or are they completely new to it? If they are new to it, warm them up by telling them why they’ll love your work and use humor! If you’re the first speaker, you won’t have a lot of material to riff about except complimentary stuff about the venue, the hosts and the warm crowd, but if you’re performing after an open mic segment or after another speaker, talk up the folks who have gone before you and give them a little love. Doing so will endear you to your audience.
I had a little issue with a speaking engagement when I realized that my talk was geared towards entrepreneurs and not corporate employees. Oh, boy! I should have asked my speaking coordinator who my audience so I could prepare. But here I was and I spoke to them about how being creative and flexible would make them more effective in their presentations—something from entrepreneur world that they may not deal with on a daily basis.
Collect Stories
As you go about your life, collect anecdotes that will resonate with your audience and that will help you break the tension. Just be sure that they’re relevant to you and your reading!
Prepare
Rehearse your talk and material ahead of time—mark your pages if you’re reading from your book so you’re not thumbing randomly! Check to see where you’re stumbling and adjust. Time your talk so you’re going over or under.
Show Up Early
When you show up early rather than on time you give yourself the chance to arrange the room and get a feel for the acoustics. I’ve shown up early at gigs and have rearranged the chairs to go from a classroom to a U-pattern—it’s made all of the difference!
Don’t drink too much
This applies more at a reading or an open mic, but don’t drink even if you think it’ll help you when it’s your turn at the mic. Drink plenty of water and when you’re all through, then have your favorite adult beverage.
Your Turn
OK, so those are my tips on how not to bomb. What have I missed? Please feel free to add a few more suggestions in the comments for us!
What Should You Wear When You Perform?
June 7, 2011 by Leave a Comment
If you read your writing out loud in public you need to think of yourself as a performer–even if you’re reading at an open mic with five people. You’re on stage and you need to plan your lines as well as your appearance so you can attract the right energy.
What should you wear? If you’re a casual person and like to wear jeans, you should plan on pairing your Levi’s with a new belt or jacket. If you like to wear sweaters, perhaps you can jazz things up with a red scarf or dangling earrings. In other words, wear your normal street style but kick it up a notch so you still feel like you when you’re up at the mic.
On the other hand, some writers take the other route and dress completely differently on performance nights than what you’d see them wear on the street. When I started reading my poetry at different events 5 years ago, that’s what I did–I’d wear gloves, ballet skirts bought at a real dance store, and lots of black. Soon it got too hard to top myself and I felt silly, so I decided to adopt a simpler style: body-hugging dresses or tops that are “normal” clothes. Just like Bono wears his trademark black leather jacket over a black T-shirt, Simon Cowell his V-neck tee and Scotty McCreery loves wearing his red plaid button down, I developed my performance style because I couldn’t expend that much energy on what I was wearing anymore–I wanted the pre-performance energy to be more productive. Still, I didn’t want to be photographed wearing the same dress at every reading. That’s the fork in the road you have to cross–do you wear one of the same blue shirt every time you’re performing or do you vary it up a bit? If you wear the same shirt or blouse, you’ll be doing a good job of branding yourself. People will even say, “Hey, you wore that same shirt in your photo!” I chose the latter: I wear different dresses to each reading I do, but play it smart by buying these dresses at Our Friends’ Closet, a boutique consignment shop in north Raleigh. Yes, most of these dresses are black and white, but I do sometimes throw in purple, pink or even red.
Whatever your style is, be consistent and plan well. You’ll feel more attractive and you’ll attract the audience. Unless you’re Lady Gaga, you won’t want to work so hard at managing your outfits. You’ll want to find clothes that suit you and your style and that also make people associate the outer you with the inner you.
Comment below–I’d love your feedback on this post!
Your Turn:
What do you wear when you perform at an open mic or reading? How much or how little do you plan for what you’ll be wearing? Do you have a particular style?

















